ONS, FWB, NSA – 5 annoying things about online dating

Before, I start, let u give you a (not so) warm welcome to tát the world of online dating. If you are new or old to tát online dating, I feel sorry for you and I refer to tát both women and men.

The world of online dating is a complete clusterfuck. Let’s face it, people complain and blame the dating app’s, rather kêu ca looking at themselves and realising that it’s not the dating phầm mềm with the problem, it’s the people using the phầm mềm, that is the problem.

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I am not saying that online dating is a bad thing, I believe it is actually a good thing, you get to tát (sometimes) speak to tát nice people that you wouldn’t normally speak too, however, you also get to tát speak to tát weirdo’s that are simply annoying.

I have noticed a running theme when browsing women’s profiles. I cannot quite quantify my results, but if you take 5 minutes and read women’s profile on any dating phầm mềm you will come across a series of acronyms such as No, ONS (one night stand), No, FWB (friends with benefits), No, NSA (no strings attached)… and it makes you wonder, why does almost every woman have to tát clearly state that they aren’t looking for the above on their profiles?

Is it a simple fact that men are generally looking for hookups and one night stands and women are not? And if sánh, surely this means, there is something wrong with the men vs woman’s approach to tát online dating, right? Are the majority of women simply seeking relationships while the majority of men are simply seeking sex? You’re guess is as good as mine, but judging from what I have seen sánh far, this seems to tát be the case.

With that in mind, here are 5 annoying things about online dating from a male perspective!

1 – Newbie to tát online dating? Don’t even waste your time! Lol.

If you are new to tát online dating and about to tát sign up, you may as well forget it. The reason being is that the people that are already into online dating, have probably come across sánh many weirdoes and crazy people/scenarios that by the time you get to tát meet them (if you get lucky enough to tát meet them), they are probably already broken. You’ll see plenty of women stating on their profile things such as ‘Are there any decent guys out there?’ or ‘Swipe left if you are a weirdo’ etc. This is the proof of the tonnes of women that are fed up with online dating and fed up with the whole process in general.

2 – No ONS, FWB, NSA or hookups!

As mentioned above, I guarantee that most women’s profiles will state No ONS, FWB, NSA or hookups. Women are constantly trying to tát remind men, that they bởi not want hookups, instead, they seeking relationships and they want to tát ‘FIND THE ONE’ blah, blah, blah… I think some women need to tát step away from the fairy tales and realise, that ‘The One’ could be anyone. It takes two people to tát put in serious effort, rather kêu ca the idea of ‘The One’ is simply sitting there waiting to tát be found or waiting to tát find you.

3 – The Crazies and weirdos!

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I honestly bởi not lượt thích calling people crazy, or weird or whatever term you may conceive, however, I have come across some women via online dating that I could điện thoại tư vấn crazy. As a newbie to tát online dating, you start with sánh much excitement and enthusiasm, but over a short period of time, the enthusiasm depletes and you kết thúc up becoming lượt thích the rest of the loners and sadoes on online dating apps. So, before I decide to tát điện thoại tư vấn people crazy, I am just going to tát state ‘for the record’, that I believe, most women aren’t crazy at all. I’d much rather say, that a lot of women who have experienced online dating, now walk with their guard up, for their own protection from the weird man who has antagonised them in the past via online dating.

4 – What are you looking for?

What are you looking for?, is one of the most common questions I seem to tát get asked by women via online dating. So for every woman out there reading this article, my simple answer is this… I bởi not know what I am looking for. I am a man, I’m simply looking to tát see what’s out here, and to tát see if I can find a nice lady. I bởi not walk around with a preconceived concept of what I am looking for. Men don’t think lượt thích women. Our checklist of tick boxes is probably made up of 3 simple things in the beginning. Does she look good? Is she nice? Is she someone, I would lượt thích to tát have sex with? and that’s it. After those 3 tick boxes have been ticked and we have gone through the motions of applying those tick boxes. That’s the moment, I can truly tell you ‘what I am looking for’. Anything before that moment is an unanswerable question, sánh stop asking lol.

5 – Surprise u, wow u, etc, etc, etc

This is probably, one of the most annoying statements via online dating. Women who state in their profile, that men have to tát write an elaborate and awesome opening statement in order to tát get their attention. You will also see women complaining about men who use the ‘copy and paste’ method in their opening statements. But here’s the thing. Some women don’t understand how this all works from the male perspective. Picture this… A man starts browsing profiles… swiping right, hoping to tát get a match. Now let’s say, for instance, this man get 3 matches per day (if he is lucky lol), while he is trying to tát find a woman that will actually make the effort to tát go on a date with him. This guy now has to tát write three new elaborate and awesome opening statements, based on the women’s profile, every day until he gets lucky. Each woman is judging the man on his opening statement and let’s face it, the man sending the message has no idea who you are or what you lượt thích sánh how on earth is he going to tát be able to tát maintain a slew of elaborate and awesome opening statements for each woman he tries to tát speak to? It’s a complete waste of one’s precious time, which could be spent on reading books or developing one’s mind in another area. Flip the script and let women make the opening statements, you will realise that lots of women are basically SHIT at opening statements (trust u, I’ve been on bumble, where the women have to tát speak first) and women simply say Hi…

Well, there you go. These are my 5 annoying things about online dating from a male perspective. I could go on and on and on… I haven’t even started with the old age saga of who should pay for the first date, or who should make the first move etc. And don’t get u started on ghosting and blocking and unmatching… The list goes one.

I would love to tát know what men and women think about this article, sánh please leave your comments below…